Initiated Adulthood
A 3-Hour Online Rite of Passage into Self-Authority
Stop circling the same patterns. Leave with clearer decisions, stronger boundaries, and the grounded feeling of being self-led.
Not therapy. Not coaching. Not catharsis. A threshold.
If you’re tired, it might not be because you’re broken.
A lot of adults are capable, self-aware, and spiritually grounded… and still feel stuck in:
second-guessing
over-explaining
waiting to be chosen
avoiding the decision they already know they need to make
This workshop is designed to complete the internal shift from competence to self-authority—so your life stops feeling like a negotiation with yourself.
After this workshop, you’ll be able to…
Make decisions without spiraling or outsourcing your authority
Set boundaries that hold (without over-explaining)
Take responsibility without shame or self-punishment
Stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself
Respond instead of react when life gets intense
Not because life gets easier—because you stop abandoning yourself inside it.
What this IS
A structured rite-of-passage container
Consent-based, sovereignty-centered
Practical + embodied
Focused on completion, not more homework
What this is NOT
Therapy or trauma processing
A coaching call disguised as a workshop
Emotional dumping or group advice-giving
A place to be fixed, diagnosed, or analyzed
The Initiation You’ll Move Through
Gate One: Recognition
See where you give away authority and why.
Gate Two: Severance
Release outdated roles and unconscious contracts.
Gate Three: Claiming
Choose adulthood deliberately—responsibility without shame.
Gate Four: Witnessing
Be seen in the crossing so it lands and lasts.
Facilitated by
Virginia Underwood
I create containers for conscious threshold crossings—where insight becomes action and self-trust becomes lived reality. This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about claiming what’s already true and living from it.
Choose Your Seat
Standard — $88
Live 3-hour workshop
7-day integration sequence
Supported — $144
Everything in Standard
30-minute integration call (within 2 weeks)
If cost is a barrier, email me at [email] for a limited number of sliding-scale seats.
A note on safety and support
This workshop is not therapy and does not involve trauma processing. Participation is consent-based and self-directed. If you are in acute distress or crisis, please seek professional support and consider joining at a later time.
FAQs
1: Is this like coaching or therapy?
No. This is an initiation container focused on choice, responsibility, and self-authority.
2: Do I have to share personal stuff?
No. Sharing is always optional. You can participate privately.
3: What if I get emotional?
Emotion is welcome, but we won’t process or analyze it as a group. You’ll be guided to stay grounded and self-led.
4: What if I’m not “spiritual”?
You don’t need any spiritual background. This is practical and human: decisions, boundaries, responsibility.
5: Will there be a replay?
No, the initiation itself is strongest live.
6: What if I’m late or need to step away?
You’re in choice. Step away as needed. You can rejoin when ready.
You don’t need another workshop to fix you.
You may need a moment to complete what never fully crossed over—so you can stop negotiating with yourself and start living from authority.
Questions? Email twojaguarjourneys@gmail.com • Hosted live on Zoom